Fuck the people

Forget about the others. Don’t be worried about what they think. You are paying money. And you are working hard. No need to be embarassed.

Please yourself

Summary
In this talk, the speaker shares the journey of a client who was initially overweight, unhappy, and overly concerned with others’ opinions. By choosing to focus on his own self-improvement instead of external validation or drama, the client transformed both physically and mentally—losing 80 pounds and developing greater confidence. The speaker emphasizes the importance of channeling your energy into personal growth habits (diet, exercise, discipline, mentorship) and removing the distractions of other people’s judgments or drama. Ultimately, cultivating a strong sense of purpose and investing in your own goals attracts a like-minded circle and frees you from caring about external approval.

Main Mindset Change
Stop living through others’ lenses and seeking their validation; instead, dedicate your energy and attention to becoming the best version of yourself. By aligning daily actions with meaningful personal goals and cutting out unproductive noise, you shift from people-pleasing to self-mastery.