A mental switch leading to adulthood – Growth Mindset?

There is a switch happening in my mind. A lot of events and scenarios are occuring around me, which are changing how I view myself.

• I am viewing my elders as being normal human beings. Not much smarter than I am.
• Remember those people at work – they were my age when they started a lot of these things.
• Also at work, I feel like (1) I don’t have guidance (2) it is not expected for me to follow. Now the expectation is to be a leader.
• This is scary, but empowering. People, in fact, will look down upon you, and try to fuck you up.
• Remember that event from earlier this year when you proposed that idea but you didn’t get the credit.
• Remember that.
• You have hostile agents around you. You cannot leave your trust in people like this.
• And just verbalizing ideas doesn’t really help.
• You have to actually take a step and do them yourself
• “Followship”

• My relationship is under going the same issue. My gf is not a support. I am not living the life I want to.
• I was relying on my gf to support me in some amorphous idea I verbalized.
• But because I don’t actually live those ideals, nothing will happen.
• “Followship” of your gf to live the life you want to.

In both cases, the mindset is becoming ACTIVE vs. PASSIVE. It’s more EMPOWERING. Perhaps this is the GROWTH MINDSET

Be the person you want to be. You have to work hard at it. It’s important for it to keep going.